I particularly love the fathers in the self-help space who make ‘being a dad’ a major part of their identity, but still manage a solitary 3-hour morning routine and then, at 8 am, ‘dedicate some time to playing with my 3 kids’. Hmmm. I guess it’s possible that all 3 of his kids slept in ’til 8am, but I suspect his wife’s 3-hour shift was what allowed him his morning routine, and as a heterosexual woman, I don’t have a wife.